The Right Way to Stand Up for Yourself at Work

We all know that speaking up in the workplace can be daunting, but advocating for ourselves is not just beneficial. It’s essential. 

Whether it’s handling tough conversations, resisting unreasonable demands, or ensuring our efforts are acknowledged and valued, standing up for ourselves is crucial. This is particularly true for women as, according to a recent Indeed survey, a staggering 70% of female employees recognize the need to develop self-advocacy skills—yet only 30% feel prepared to do so effectively.

For any type of sustained professional growth or personal well-being, we have to be willing to effectively advocate for ourselves… The tricky bit is just knowing how to do it. 

Enter Rachel Druckenmiller, CEO of UNMUTED, and Optimist Instructor who teaches “Speak Up: Be Your Own Self Advocate at Work”. No matter your personality type or experience level, she has an easy and impactful technique that you can use to become a more effective advocate for yourself at work. 

Rachel’s secret to becoming a more assertive self-advocate is to identify and eliminate your “energy vampires.” She says:

“Identify the parts of your day that are disproportionately exhausting relative to their value to your role or the organization.”

Here’s how:

A Step-by-Step Guide to Eliminating Our Energy Vampires

  • 1. List Your Tasks:

Start by jotting down every task you handle regularly. Include everything, no matter how minor or infrequent it may seem.

  • 2. Assess Energy Impact:

Next to each task, mark whether it’s an energy drainer or an energy booster. Be brutally honest about how each task affects you. Rachel says, “Brutal honesty is crucial in identifying the vampires—those tasks, processes, or even people who significantly sap your motivation, joy, and energy.”

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Human Skills are rarely taught at work. Let's change that.

  • 4. Create an Action Plan:

For each vampire task identified, determine whether you can eliminate it, schedule it less frequently, or delegate it. This step involves removing the task, finding a less frequent timetable for it, or handing it off to someone else who is better suited to take it on.

  • 5. Communicate Your Needs:

With this analysis in hand, prepare a detailed proposal for your manager that outlines how redistributing these tasks will allow you to concentrate on areas where you can deliver the most value. Emphasize how this realignment benefits not just your well-being but also the productivity and outcomes of your team. Adopting a “solution-oriented” rather than a “problem-oriented” approach is key. 

  • 3. Categorize Your Tasks:

Decide which tasks are critical and align with your job requirements and which could be shifted to others. This might include automating repetitive administrative duties or delegating them to an intern, or perhaps reducing your attendance at less critical meetings. Rachel says,

“Pinpoint the tasks that drain your energy and devise strategies to minimize or remove them from your responsibilities.”

Here’s how to frame it:

Solution-Oriented: “After analyzing the return on investment of my direct efforts, it’s clear that when I engage in TASK X, we see a measurable improvement across various metrics. If I could focus more on TASK X, I believe we could further enhance our organizational performance. I am eager to expand my involvement with TASK X, but I find that TASK Y and Z are limiting our potential. I propose we adjust our approach accordingly.”

Problem-Oriented: “ “I don’t want to do this. It is a time-suck that is beneath my skills and experience level.”

By identifying tasks that do not leverage our unique skills and proposing thoughtful, strategic changes, we can significantly improve organizational effectiveness. More often than not, our bosses will thank us for it. 

For the full class and more advice, check out The Optimism Library

The Job Skills Most Impacted by ChatGPT, According to Science

It’s always nice when scientific research supports what we already know to be true: Being a human being actually matters—even in the age of AI.

A new study just published in the academic journal Technological Forecasting and Social Change examines the job skills most impacted by the AI technology ChatGPT. The research identifies 185 skills influenced by ChatGPT, emphasizing the importance of Human Skills in the AI age. It also highlights four essential skills necessary for effectively working with ChatGPT, offering a roadmap for professionals to adapt and thrive.

Key Job Skills Most Affected by ChatGPT

The study analyzed more than 616,000 tweets about ChatGPT and cross-referenced this data with job information from ESCO, the EU’s database on skills, competences, and occupations. The findings reveal that ChatGPT most significantly impacts the following areas:

  • Script programming
  • Responding to inquiries
  • Writing storylines and songs
  • Rewriting articles
  • Editing scripts
  • Creating digital content
  • Providing information
  • Problem-solving
  • Assisting with homework

Nothing super surprising here, but these results show that ChatGPT is overwhelmingly used for tasks involving computer programming and various forms of writing. Now, contrary to concerns about AI replacing jobs in these fields, the study suggests otherwise—that these roles can simply enhance their productivity by leveraging AI for routine tasks while focusing more on the more creative, human-focused aspects.

The Essential Human Skills in the AI Era

The study notes the enduring value of Human Skills, which are critical for success in a technology-driven world. These include:

  • Communication, collaboration, and creativity
  • Working with computers
  • Assisting and caring
  • Social and communication skills
  • Self-management
  • Critical thinking

Put simply, these skills highlight the necessity for human interaction and emotional intelligence, regardless of technological advancements.

The Four Crucial Skills for Using ChatGPT Effectively

Most interestingly, to maximize the benefits of ChatGPT, the study urges everyone who works directly with the technology to develop the following capabilities:

  • Artfully Defining Task Goals: The ability to set clear, specific, and achievable objectives for tasks or projects.
  • Using Effective Prompt Language: The skill to communicate clearly and unambiguously with AI models.
  • Understanding Generative AI Principles: Knowledge of the fundamental concepts of generative AI to fully leverage its capabilities and understand its limitations.
  • Conducting Performance Measurement: The capability to assess the effectiveness of AI models using relevant metrics and benchmarks.

According to the study, these skills are essential for anyone looking to integrate ChatGPT into their work effectively, ensuring that they not only keep pace with technological changes but also use them to their advantage. 

While ChatGPT and similar technologies are transforming the landscape of many professions, it’s simply a fact that the human element remains irreplaceable. By developing both technical and Human Skills, professionals can ensure they remain invaluable in the workforce of the future.

The Résumé Trick That Gets You Noticed

We all want to stand out in a crowded job market, and it’s no secret that tailoring a résumé that sets us apart is crucial to boosting our chances of catching a potential employer’s eye.

While many hiring experts will tell us that we need to be scientific about certain fonts—and others will tell us that we need to highlight achievements in a specific way—we’d like to emphasize the importance of something equally, if not more, powerful: communicating our personal WHYs clearly at the top of our résumés and tying those WHY’s to the organization’s larger brand purpose.

Now, if you know anything about our Chief Optimist, Simon Sinek, you’re probably familiar with his concept of The Golden Circle. According to Simon, applying the Golden Circle to our résumés is an incredibly powerful tool.

When we apply this strategy to our résumés, we’re not just presenting our qualifications; we’re also showcasing our unique contributions and cultural fit—factors increasingly important in the hiring process. 

Here’s how to do it.

Step One: Identify Your WHY Statement:

Reflect on what drives you. What are the core values and passions that motivate you? This might relate to personal growth, a commitment to innovation, or a desire to contribute to societal change. (For more help on discovering your WHY, see here and here.)

Our WHY statements are the articulation of who we are at our natural best. It’s what we’re doing when we’re the most inspired, most passionate, and most fulfilled. 

For example, Simon’s WHY is “to inspire people to do the things that inspire them, so that together we can change the world for the better.” 

Other examples of WHY statements could be:

  • “To empower those who are next so that together we can give the world new potential.”
  • “To curate joy, so that we can all inhabit happiness.”
  • “To connect authenticity with communication, so that together we can create meaningful relationships.”

Step Two: Research the Company’s Brand Purpose:

We need to understand the mission, vision, and values of the companies we’re applying to. This information is usually found on their website, whether it be in their mission statement or recent press releases.

Now, our personal WHYs and the company’s WHY needn’t be a one-to-one match. But hopefully, we can find something about the company’s purpose that resonates with us. If not, it could be a red flag that the company isn’t the right fit. (After all, a survey by SelectOne found that 72% of workers consider corporate culture a key factor in their decision to stay with a company, and 32% of those who left a job within the first 90 days cited a mismatch in company culture as the reason for their departure.)

Step Three: Align Your WHY with the Company’s Brand Purpose:

Let’s say we’re applying for a role at Adidas. Their brand purpose statement is clear: “Through sport, we have the power to change lives. We will always strive to expand the limits of human possibilities.”

At the top of our résumé, we should explain in one sentence how our WHY is complementary to the company’s goals. As an example, if Simon were applying for a role at Adidas, he could say something like this:

Driven by a passion to inspire, I believe in harnessing the power of sport to elevate human potential and create meaningful change in the world.”

Instantly, the Adidas hiring manager will know that Simon might be a good cultural fit.

Remember: Résumés reflecting our values are more likely to catch an employer’s attention, especially when we’re applying to highly competitive roles. 

14 Ways to Have Better Mondays, According to Team Simon

Mondays—the day Garfield hates and The Mamas & The Papas sing about. We’ve all dreaded a Monday or two, haven’t we? According to Forbes Health, a whopping 80% of all working professionals and over 90% of Millennial and Gen-Z workers suffer from what’s more recently been coined as the “Sunday scaries.” 

Even we at Team Simon aren’t immune to the occasional Monday blues. But, being the Optimists we are, we’ve made it our mission to add a little positivity to your Mondays. So, in the spirit of helping others and spreading some joy, we are sharing some of our favorite Monday survival strategies that you may or may not find useful.

If you’ve found any of them helpful—or wish to share your own better-Monday strategies—we’d love to hear from you at [email protected]

1. Prep Your Morning Coffee on Sunday Night

“Did you know we literally make thousands of decisions a day? One way I reduce my Monday-morning decision-making is by prepping my coffee ahead of time. I take some time on Sunday afternoons to make a pitcher of cold brew so it’s steeped and in the fridge, ready to go. With iced coffee in hand, I can start the week feeling ahead of the game.” —Rebekah, Marketing

2. Take 15-Minutes to Walk Around the Block

“I’ve gotten in the habit of starting my week with a walk around the block, typically just before breakfast. It’s like fresh air for the soul. Too often we can overlook the enormous benefits of a simple stroll. Also, it’s excellent for your creativity and thinking through problems. If you’re feeling stuck on something, my advice is to try walking it off.”  —Sara, Empowerment

3. Try a Special Monday Self-Care Routine

“I swear by my feel-good Monday self-care routine: I wait for the sun to rise, and then go for a walk with my cat. After work in the evening, I take another long walk with my cat. When we get back, I play music and do yoga in a sunlit room. Afterward, I meditate! By this point, I am feeling really happy regardless of how the day went. It’s about being kind to yourself. On an extra special day, I’ll soak in the hot tub in the evening too.” —Lisa, Tech

4. Take 5 Minutes to Tidy Your Workspace First Thing in the Morning

“As a remote worker, I’ve found that incorporating small rituals into my Monday routine makes a big difference in my productivity and mood. I always start by taking a few minutes to ensure that my workspace is clean and organized. Yes, it’s a small thing, but science has my back on this: Studies show that a clean desk can help with productivity, creativity, and a calm and clear mind. What’s more, it can instantly make you feel more professional and ready to get down to business.” — Pai, Experiences

5. Embrace “N.M.M.M.” (“No Meetings Monday Mornings”)

“I love my job, but I also love sleeping, so sometimes Mondays can be hard, even for me. I’ve been trying to uphold the hard rule of ‘No Meeting Monday Mornings.’ So, unless something is absolutely urgent and completely on fire, the calendar is blocked off. It feels like a nice soft landing into the work week, and I can focus on setting up my week for maximum success without having to rush to grab that extra Monday morning coffee between client calls.” —Sharin, Experiences

6.Take $10 to the Grocery Store and Treat Yourself

“I live within walking distance of my grocery store, so to brighten my Mondays, I usually go for a ‘superfluous’ snacks and beverage run. Anything I otherwise wouldn’t buy, I treat myself to. I will avail myself of Kettle Chips, La Croix, Outshine popsicles, or a chocolate croissant. Yes, it’s a simple pleasure, but it can make all of the difference to your mood.” —David, Production

7. Try Some High-Intensity Exercise

“Monday mornings are when I set aside time for a 45-minute virtual fitness class that I find on YouTube, usually a mix of cardio and light resistance training. I choose high-intensity routines to essentially shock my body into a higher gear to start my week, which leaves me feeling sharper, more energetic, and alert. Afterward, I’m fully prepared to dive headlong into work.” —Henrietta, CEO

8. Create a Special Monday Soundtrack

“I make my Mondays fun with music. I start my day with my favorite Spotify playlist of Animal Crossing lo-fi to trick myself into thinking that being productive matches the vibe of the music. (Am I inadvertently classical conditioning myself? Who’s to say—but all I know is I feel better doing work if my mind thinks that I’m doing that work for my little animal villager neighbors on my five-star-rated island.) Then, in the afternoon, when go for a walk, I try to listen to a new album each time. It’s the perfect combo of familiar favorites in the morning and something new and exciting to look forward to in the afternoon.” —Emily, Marketing

9. Plan a Social Outing for Monday Night 

“Just because it’s Monday doesn’t mean you can’t have fun plans! It can be a game night with friends, a movie, a dinner reservation, or a bike ride. I think sprinkling activities throughout the weekdays, in general, is a great way to get out of the house (especially if you work fully remote) and a way to ensure you aren’t trying to cram all your fun into just the weekends!” —Olivia, Operations

10. Save Your Fave Food for Monday Night

“I love to indulge in a more weekend-appropriate dinner on Monday nights, like pizza, a burger, or pad Thai. I find that having something to look forward to early in the week is a real mood-booster. In terms of nutrition, Tuesdays feel like my Mondays.” —Keenan, Marketing

11. Attack Your Biggest Project Head-On

“After I’ve caught up with my team and held my morning meetings, I’ll always block out as much time as I can on Monday afternoons to hyper-focus on the biggest project that will make the rest of the week feel better once it’s complete.” —Greg, Content

12. Create a Light Landing Into Your Work Day

“Move easier meetings first, harder meetings to later in the morning. This allows me the space to embrace my weekend catch-up first and plan my day and week out a bit. It also creates space for me to relax on Sunday night knowing I don’t need to be prepped for anything first thing in the morning.”  —Molly, Experiences

13. Have a Quick Catchup with Your Teammates

“Having a quick status meeting each Monday always starts the week off on a really nice foot. I get to see my awesome team, be reminded of all of the brilliant things they do, and we get clarity on who’s doing what for that week. It’s a great way to connect, say hi, support each other, and give everyone autonomy to execute from that point forward.” —Joi, Operations

14. Touch Grass!

“Yes, I know it’s a meme online, but it’s especially for remote workers to get out into the world, even if it’s for a very short amount of time. You’ve got to feel some sunshine and talk to someone—even a gas station attendant!” —Zach, Production

3 Ways Your Brain Is Sabotaging You at Work, According to a Neuroscientist

We would all love to go to work each day feeling unburdened by stress and unhelpful thoughts—those that hold us back from trying new things, getting more done, and embracing difficult situations. 

But we also know that our brains can be set in their ways, what with their roughly 100 trillion synaptic connections, some of which actively undermine our productivity every minute. 

That’s why, according to Dr. Stu Farrimond, Optimist Instructor and acclaimed author of Science of Living, we often hold ourselves back at work without even realizing it. Some of our worst behaviors—like procrastinating, under-communicating, or being indecisive—stem from letting our deeply ingrained habits take control and switch our brains to autopilot.

Here are three ways Dr. Stu says your brain acts as your own personal saboteur, with the hope that knowing about them will help you in replacing your brain’s bad habits with better ones. (For more, check out Dr. Stu’s class, “The Neuroscience of Success at Work,” in The Optimism Library.)

 1. Your gut instincts are trustworthy only in familiar situations

“Our brain’s amygdala, an area deeply involved in emotional responses, helps forge ‘emotional memories’ that can guide instinctive reactions in familiar situations,” says Dr. Stu. 

This can be a good thing. For example, a seasoned manager might successfully rely on gut feelings to make quick decisions during routine operations or when resolving conflicts they’ve navigated before, leveraging past experiences encoded in their emotional memory.

In these familiar moments, Dr. Stu says it’s great to “trust your gut.” 

He cautions, however, trusting your gut in unfamiliar or unpredictable situations. Maybe you’re facing a new problem, trying to manage a new sort of conflict, or trying to work through a task you’ve never done before, like implementing an entirely new technology in the office.

“Your hunches can only be trusted in areas of life that are fairly predictable and repeatable, like driving or cooking,” he says. “However, in unfamiliar or unpredictable situations, relying on gut feelings can lead you astray. This insight is underpinned by studies showing the unreliability of eyewitness testimonies in stressful situations, which often result in wrongful convictions.”

2. Our brains are often too quick to make assumptions

Dr. Stu describes the brain as a “sophisticated guessing machine.”

Our vision, for instance, isn’t as reliable as we might think. “Our brain fills in gaps in our peripheral vision, creating a continuous image from sparse data,” he says. “This mechanism, while efficient, makes us very unreliable witnesses, a fact supported by research showing a high percentage of wrongful convictions based on inaccurate eyewitness testimonies.”

The same concept can be found in the workplace, especially in intrateam communication. Consider a scenario where a manager asks for updates on a complex process with many moving parts. They might believe they have a full understanding of the project status based on quick visual scans of progress charts and brief updates from team members, but in reality, their brain is filling in gaps and creating a seemingly coherent picture from incomplete information. This can lead to overconfidence in the project’s progress or unforeseen issues that were never actually communicated but were assumed to be resolved. 

When it comes to collaborating with your team, Dr. Stu says it’s best to over-communicate to the point of obviousness—because what is often obvious to you is not always clear to the rest of the team or your superiors.

3. You can teach an old brain new tricks.

Sure, humans can get stuck in their ways. But bad habits, we’re thrilled to say, can be broken—or, more accurately, bad habits can be replaced with good ones.  

According to Dr. Stu, the brain can be reprogrammed to foster better workplace behaviors and decision-making. 

“The concept of schemas,” he says, “are rooted in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). Essentially, we know schemas as a sort of bodily autopilot. They are the patterns of thought and behavior that we default to after repeated learned behavior. The good news is, schemas can be adjusted.”

Our brain’s neuroplasticity and ability to adapt can significantly alter our responses to workplace challenges, “leading to more effective and adaptive behaviors,” says Dr. Stu. “It can take time, but if we repeat and reinforce better habits at work, we can replace one habit with another.”

A workplace example here could be how we handle feedback. 

Imagine a scenario where an employee typically reacts defensively to constructive criticism, viewing it as a personal attack rather than an opportunity for growth. This reaction is a schema—a learned behavior based on past experiences. By recognizing this schema and treating it like a habit, the employee can begin to replace the defensive response with a more productive one, such as asking clarifying questions or considering the feedback as a path to professional development. 

Over time, with conscious effort and repetition, this new approach can become the default, demonstrating the brain’s remarkable capacity to adapt.

For more, check out The Optimism Library.




The Surprising Benefits of “Summer Fridays”

Let’s face it… who hasn’t fantasized about dodging their desk on a sunny Friday afternoon? Just picture it: a summer where Fridays are yours to kick back, relax, or pursue your passions. It’s so close you can almost taste it, and with some help from Joe Sanok, you just might be able to plead your case to your boss. 

Joe is a seasoned author and Optimist Instructor, and as such is the brain behind one of our most popular classes in The Optimism Library, “Work Smarter, Not Longer.” This class lays bare the surprising, research-backed benefits of a four-day workweek, arguing that it’s not just a nice-to-have for employees but also a major boon for businesses aiming to boost productivity and the bottom line.

But Wait—How Does Less Work Mean More Productivity?

The main pushback against a shorter workweek often comes from a fear that productivity will plummet, that the bottom line will suffer. (No shocker here.) However, Joe, armed with both historical insights and recent data, argues otherwise.

“Shifting to a four-day model has led to significant savings and happier, more engaged employees in loads of many different types of organizations,” he says. 

He highlights research from trials like Iceland’s recent study into reduced working hours, which shows that employees are not only happier but also healthier and more productive. “When we work fewer hours, we actually do better, more focused work,” Joe explains. (For more on this, check out How to Master the Art of Working Less and Achieving More.)

Use Summer Fridays As an Experiment

Though obviously impossible at many companies and likely in many industries (looking at you with admiration and gratitude, doctors and nurses!), a four-day work week can begin as a simple experiment, says Joe. 

Employers can adopt the four-day workweek during the summer as a pilot, observing the impact on key performance indicators and overall employee well-being. This isn’t about shirking responsibility but about redistributing effort more intelligently to harness peak productivity periods and foster a happier workplace.

Organizations worried about dipping their toes into these uncharted waters can take comfort from Joe’s reassurances and the successes of those who have already made the leap. The shift towards a more flexible, employee-focused schedule could also serve as a powerful recruitment and retention tool, an aspect critical in today’s competitive job market.

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The Best Way to Give Effective Praise at Work, According to Simon

  • We all love praise, but delivering it effectively is a learned skill.
  • The Optimism Company recently conducted a poll with 13,790 participants, revealing that most workers prefer to be praised in private rather than in public.
  • Simon reveals his go-to method for giving effective praise.

Fact: We all love praise. Be it a little compliment on an outfit, a thank-you for some help with a task, or even just a thumbs-up after a presentation, praise is a ray of sunshine that can clear up a cloudy day. And yet we often forget that giving praise effectively is actually a skill. 

It’s not just about saying “good job” and moving on; it’s about making your team members feel valued and appreciated in a meaningful way. Also, how you choose to deliver your praise—whether it’s in public, in private, in person, over Slack—can make all the difference. 

For perspective, we recently conducted a poll to learn more about how people prefer to be acknowledged for their good work, and 13,790 people participated. The results were fascinating:

Turns out, most of the respondents indicated a preference for private conversations. This suggests that personalized, one-on-one praise goes a long way for many workers.

Others, however, felt differently. Some enjoy being acknowledged in front of their peers. Others value tangible rewards or gestures of appreciation, such as a handwritten note or a small gift.

Equally as interesting were the variety of detailed responses we received in the comments to our poll. People shared their unique and creative ideas for how they like to be praised. Here are just some of the comments from our poll participants (ed note: some have been lightly edited for clarity):

From Tonya B.:

I personally don’t need public accolades. However, I have learned that when it comes to work, praising in public can open doors. People are impressed by this sort of thing, so it can lead to new opportunities. So tell the world. Otherwise, an email for my ‘kudos’ folder and a cash bonus would be great!

From Sarah M.:

I love when my manager takes the time to give me specific feedback on my work. It shows that they’ve really paid attention and appreciate my efforts.

From Emily S.: 

“I appreciate when praise is tied to the bigger picture. Knowing how my contributions contribute to the team’s success motivates me to keep up the good work.”

From Cole T.:

“If promotion, raise, or bonus are not an option, then my preferred recognition would be a personal meeting with my leadership team where I was thanked for the stellar work and given the opportunity to share my key learnings from the experience. I could also  provide feedback on where I encountered hurdles and inefficiencies. This would really make me feel truly appreciated as it demonstrates to me that they actually care about the work I put in along with any ways the process can improve for next time.”

From Chuck D.:

“It’s not about how. It’s about intentions. Authenticity is powerful and memorable.”

As you see, giving praise effectively isn’t necessarily one-size-fits-all. 

Simon’s Tips for Giving Effective Praise

When choosing the setting for your praise—whether in a team meeting, a company town hall, or one-on-one—use your best judgment based on your knowledge of the employee and their preferences. When in doubt, Simon advises making it a one-on-one conversation.

“In-person is always the best,” he says. “Over-the-phone is second best. Giving praise over email and text are weak substitutes. As a general rule, if you can email someone, you can call them.”

For the praise itself, Simon suggests structuring it in a specific way:

  • Start with, “Here’s the thing you did.”
  • Then, say, “Here’s how I feel about what you did.”
  • Follow with, “Here’s the impact of what you did.”

He provides this example:

“Jennifer, when I was in your meeting the other day, I saw the way you talked to your team. It made me so proud and showed that you are the best example of our values. I am confident that if you keep doing that, your team and group will thrive beyond any of our expectations.”

Feels good, doesn’t it?

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Simon’s Red Flags for Knowing When It’s Time to Quit Your Job

  • Understand the importance of securing a new job before quitting your current one, backed by research showing hiring biases against the unemployed.
  • That said, learn to identify critical indicators, such as (truly) toxic environments or conflicting organizational agendas, signaling when it’s time to move on.
  • Gain valuable insights and guidance from Simon Sinek on navigating workplace challenges and making strategic career decisions.

There are countless reasons why one might feel unhappy at work. However, abandoning ship is almost never the best solution. As Simon emphasizes, every job, no matter how challenging or disheartening, presents an opportunity for personal and professional growth.

“Working at a challenging job, even one with a bad boss, can actually provide one of the greatest educations,” he says. Rather than waking up with a sense of dread, consider reframing your mindset to view it as a form of higher studies. Essentially, you’re earning a master’s degree in leadership and gaining invaluable insights into what not to do.

Moreover, it’s a well-established fact that finding a new job is easier while you are still employed. Research indicates that organizations often exhibit a hiring bias against those who are unemployed.

That said, there are situations where quitting might be the appropriate decision, especially if you have ensured some financial stability to pursue new opportunities. According to Simon, here are the major red flags that suggest a company or organization is no longer worth your time.

1. The work environment is certified, Grade-A toxic

The term “toxic” is often used to describe workplaces, but here we are referring to genuinely toxic work environments. “True toxicity,” Simon says, “involves consistent public humiliation, berating in public, or even physical aggression.”

It’s important to recognize that every job involves some degree of office politics, shifting strategies, negative tension, occasional lapses in communication, and even moments of fear. As human beings, it’s our responsibility to navigate these challenges, support one another, and move forward.

However, if you find yourself in a truly toxic work environment, prioritizing your well-being is crucial. Such environments, characterized by high stress and toxicity, can severely impact your self-worth and confidence, making it challenging to pursue better opportunities.

If this sounds like your situation, you are not alone. Recent reports indicate that a hostile work environment is a top reason for employees quitting, with Gallup noting that approximately one in two employees have left a job to escape a bad manager or environment.

2. You’re getting lazy with nowhere to go.

If you are content with coasting at work with little to no effort, if you’re in a phase of life where having an easy job fits (like after having a baby), or if you’ve achieved a level of stability that satisfies you, feel free to skip to the next red flag.

However, if your job is so unchallenging that it’s causing you to lose passion in other areas—and you’re finding that your organization is unwilling to negotiate new opportunities within the company that might satisfy your growth ambitions—it might be time to look for something new. 

“This isn’t about the occasional slow day; it’s about a persistent lack of engagement and challenge,” Simon says. “The issue is that the job has become so easy that you’re becoming lazy.”

3. Your organization has an agenda that runs counter to your principles

This could stem from various factors, including cultural differences, political divides, or even company values. Working against who you are and what you believe can be detrimental to your mental health, regardless of the paycheck.

“You’re going to have disagreements at work, and you want people to have diverse thoughts, opinions, and politics. It makes for better teams,” Simon says. “But the issue arises when the company doesn’t value diversity of thought. If you are the outlier, it can be hard to continue in a job that forces you to silence your own beliefs.”

At the end of the day, it’s about feeling included and valued, which is essential for a healthy work environment. If you don’t feel like you matter in your company, you should find somewhere where you will—because you do.

4. You want to be an entrepreneur

As any successful entrepreneur will tell you, juggling a full-time day job and the demands of building a new business simultaneously is nearly impossible.

“The right approach,” Simon suggests, “is to balance your job and your entrepreneurial pursuits until your side project requires full-time attention. When it becomes too busy to manage both, that’s when you decide to quit.”

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How to Master the Art of Working Less and Achieving More

  • Learn the art of practicing “strategic laziness,” a productivity mindset that teaches you to minimize your efforts while maximizing your results.
  • Research shows that productivity declines significantly after working for 55 hours per week. Your objective should be to optimize your working hours and your off-work hours.
  • Continue reading for valuable tips from Denise Green, an Optimist Instructor and an expert in achieving work-life balance.

One of the worst things about being overwhelmed at work is that it creates a vicious cycle. The more you stress about your workload, the more time you spend actively trying to manage that stress. Consequently, you end up spending more time stressing and less time actually working. 

But how do you fix it? Well, Optimist Instructor and work-life balance specialist Denise Green suggests a counterintuitive trick that can help break this cycle: learning the art of strategic laziness.

No, really. Embracing laziness will indeed make you more productive. (We weren’t kidding when we said it would seem counterintuitive.)

So We Don’t Have to Work Very Hard Anymore?

Not exactly. Strategic laziness is a productivity strategy that teaches you to minimize your efforts while maximizing your results.

Denise swears by it, and teaches the core tenets of strategic laziness in her class, Conquer Overwhelm and Boost Productivity, which you can access in our Optimism Library

“Strategic laziness may feel lazy, but it’s not,” she says. “It’s like saying animals are lazy for taking a nap. Animals understand that without rest, they won’t be able to hunt and survive. However, we often believe we can keep going endlessly, which is not the case.”

The Truth About Laziness

We all know that laziness has always been viewed as something of character flaw. But despite what “rise and grind” influencers may tell you, laziness is a genetic trait shared by all humans, hardcoded into our DNA to aid in survival. Energy is a limited resource, after all, and humans have evolved to be mindful of how they expend it.

“Athletes and musicians understand this,” says Denise “They know that without proper rest, their performance suffers. Understanding this concept will not only help you overcome burnout and excessive work but also increase your productivity and enhance your reputation.”

With that in mind, here are a few tips for putting strategic laziness into practice and accomplishing more by embracing your inner couch potato:

1. Rethink Your Definition of Success

Instead of measuring success by the number of hours worked or tasks completed, focus on the value you produce. Embrace the concept of the “minimum viable product” in your daily tasks. Ask yourself, “What is the least I can do to be productive and create value?” This doesn’t mean compromising quality; it means finding the most effective way to achieve results without burning out.

2.  Understand Your Limits

A study by Stanford University found that productivity per hour declines sharply after working more than 50 hours a week. Beyond 55 hours, productivity drops so much that putting in more hours becomes pointless. Embracing strategic laziness, which includes periods of rest, can offset this decline in productivity.

3. Leave Your Desk Several Times Per Day

If you’re finding yourself staring at a blinking cursor on your computer or doomscrolling, take a walk with your pet, meditate, grab a coffee down the street, or even take a shower. Do something to get a change of pace and reset your stress. After all, a lot of times your best ideas come to you when you’re not working.

4. Try the Pomodoro Timer Method. 

Select a single task to focus on and set a timer for 25 minutes. Use that 25 minutes to do some deep work on the task until the timer goes off. Then you take a 5 minute break to walk around, get a snack, relax, etc. Set your timer again, repeat cycling your bursts of working and breaks for three of four rounds, and then take a longer break of about 30 minutes.

According to Denise, you’ll be amazed to discover how much work you’ll get done when you formalize a short burst of time in which you allow yourself to hyper-focus on your work.

5. Get to Know Your Optimal Routine. 

Sometimes working against your nature isn’t the way to go. Take the time to check in on your brain and body throughout the day. Are you more productive in the morning or the afternoon? Do you work better after a meal? Does tea help your focus? Find what conditions work best for you and schedule your workday to be complementary to them. 

For example, you may find that your mornings are best suited to creative work and your afternoons are best suited to meetings and admin. Recognize your moments of peak performance, and arrange your day around those moments. 

6. Enjoy Lower Stress Levels

In addition to improving productivity, strategic laziness also helps preserve your mental and physical health by reducing stress and anxiety associated with overworking.

Continuous work without adequate breaks can lead to chronic stress, which can contribute to serious health problems such as heart disease, high blood pressure, and mental health disorders like depression or anxiety. Incorporating strategic laziness into your routine, such as taking short naps, engaging in light physical activities throughout the workday, or setting boundaries on work hours, can significantly mitigate these risks.

“Remember, strategic laziness isn’t just about finding time to relax—it’s about making relaxation a strategic part of your success,” says Denise. “Embrace it, and watch how it transforms not just your work life but your entire well-being. You deserve it.”

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